First time Swinging?
Avenues to consider in meeting other swingers.
People in swinging may think that there is one size fits all for meeting other swingers. This is not true. Some couples love parties, while other couples love meeting up with singles. Others enjoy initiate dinner/drinks with another couple while others enjoy the large parties or swing festivals.
There are several different avenues that swingers should consider when trying to meet other swingers when they are new:
Meeting another couple or singles for drinks/dinner – This approach allows you to meet a couple or single out in a public location or home for drinks and to see if things click or not.
House parties – These are invitation only parties that are more intimate but could also be more pressure for having sex.
Hotel Parties – This is where several couples throw a party in one or several hotel rooms in one hotel.
Swinger Clubs – These are swinger clubs that are located in larger cities where couples can meet, drink, dance and have sex.
Meet and Greets – This is where one or multiple couples throw a small cocktail party or meet and greet so swingers can meet each other. No sex is usually involved at the meet and greet.
Swinger fests - These are swinger festivals located in larger cities including swinger resorts, Las Vegas, New Orleans, Miami, etc.
Swinger websites – There are a number of swinger’s websites that cater to swingers. Some of the top include (Lifestyle Lounge, SDC, Adult Friend finder, SexyMofo, Kasadie, Swing lifestyle, & more)
Swinger Resort – There are several swinger resorts in the US and in Mexico and Jamaica. This is one of the avenues I suggest to couples who don’t want to expose themselves in or around there neighborhood or town.
Out of this list of options, one that I suggest is to visit a swingers club out of town while traveling or taking a sunny vacation at a swinger resort. The benefits are that it’s far from home, its confidential, and you can meet other new and experienced swingers. Just go at your own pace.
My favorite of the two is to visit a swinger’s resort.
There are several swinger resorts but depending on what you are looking for, I would suggest either Hedonism or Desire.
If you are single or looking for single men/female I would recommend Hedonism that is located in Jamaica. This resort has been around for over 10 years and is a fun place. It’s more of a party than it is romantic. It does have a nude side and a clothing side also.
If you are a couple looking to meet other couples, I would suggest Desire, which is located in the Cancun Mexico area. This resort is romantic and filled with couples that enjoy nudity and swinging. A high percentage are swingers but there are some nudists too.
Both resorts are all inclusive, which mean drinks and meals are included. Both have daily/nightly activities, are on the ocean, have large Jacuzzi’s, and people can have sex openly.
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